Eating the kitty or pussy is considered foreplay, but it is an art form in itself. Here are 8 things you should know.
To enjoy oral sex without any stress, pay extra attention to hygiene. Although there is no actual penetration, you still run the risk of contracting STIs, or STDs such as syphilis and herpes, amongst others. This can be avoided by washing and drying your intimate areas before and after oral sex to prevent the formation of bacteria, especially if oils or lubricants were used. Remember to wash your mouth after to prevent the buildup of genital discharge.
Also, the removal of pubic hair is necessary. A total shave of the area is not necessary; a nice trim would do. Now let’s get to what you’re really here for.
1. Build up the excitement
Kiss her from the mouth down to the breasts. Cup the boobs and circle the nipples.
Kiss the neck while sucking it and leaving a hickey or two. Eye contact could be considered hot and intense. Find her erogenous zones—lick her ears, kiss her lower belly—and explore them. At this point, her legs should begin to part.
You can now begin your descent. Take a detour through the thighs. Lick the inner thigh, nibble on it;
2. You have arrived at your destination.
The clitoris might be the star, but she’s not the only actress in this movie. Focusing on just the clit for a long time could cause some discomfort or outright pain.
Leave those panties on. Kiss her through the panties, run your tongue along them, or give her a slow rub through those panties. Take the panties off slowly, or just slide them to the side.
Kiss around her vagina first. Inner thighs are a great erogenous zone; focus on them. Kiss the thighs and suck on them; maybe even leave a hickey only she can see.
Kiss her down along her inner thigh on one leg, then upwards, and then do a switch to the other leg afterwards. Slowly breathe over her vagina so she can feel your warm breath. This will increase her anticipation.
Begin slowly licking the labia minora (lips). Start sucking her clit after about a minute. Softly kiss, lick, and suck on her clitoris with your tongue. You need to keep her lubricated while eating it like you mean it. Start off lightly and slowly increase the pressure and speed. There’s no need to rush; take your time.
3. Techniques
Spread your tongue out, make it extra wet. Start at the base of the vagina and work your way up until the tip of your tongue runs over the clit. Move your head, not your tongue. This helps to cover more surface area and keeps the tongue from tiring out.
Another technique to try is making a small “O” shape with your lips, only a little bigger than her clit. Make sure your lips are moist when you place it over the clit and start sucking gently on it. You could either maintain a constant level of suction or you could suck rhythmically, sucking and releasing the clit at your own pace. You could also suck the clit into your mouth and hold it there while using your tongue to massage it.
Most women have been found to enjoy the mouth-and-finger combo. While your mouth is on the clitoris, slide a finger slowly into her vagina. Stimulate her g-spot by making a “come here” motion with your finger. To absolutely drive her wild, add a second finger.
4. Pay Attention
Some women are shy and will not tell you what they like or want. Let her body responses guide you as they either point to yes or no. She should be groaning, wriggling, and grabbing your hair. Ask if she likes it. This could open up the door to some dirty talk, but it ultimately leads to sexual communication. Find what your partner likes and stick to it.
5. Explore, explore, explore.
Do not write the alphabet with your tongue. Most women have been found to not enjoy it as this technique is inconsistent and could frustrate her.
Move your tongue up and down, side to side. Move your tongue in a figure-eight or infinity motion. Find what works for your partner and stick to it; switching up techniques will not allow your partner settle into the sensation.
6. Feel No Shame
If you can’t find the clit, or lose it at any point, ask your partner to help you. It makes for a more enjoyable experience for you both.
7. Comfort
Be comfortable, and make sure your partner is comfortable as well. Awkward positions could cause harm. Some women are also concerned about taking too long. Reassure her, whisper sweet things into her ears, and tell her she can take her time.
8.Climax
Not all women will orgasm, and that’s okay. That is not the end goal, and it does not determine whether or not they enjoyed the experience.
