Sex is a taboo of some sort in most parts of Africa but the truth is we’re all having sex and loads of it. Sex is an innate part of our lives and not something that should be scorned by society but instead celebrated and openly talked about. Most people are craving more excitement in bed but are too shy or feel insecure publicly talking about it or sharing their kinks.
Many couples are afraid to switch up a sexual script that’s working, to try new things and this keeps them in a loop of basically boring ass sex and we’re here to change that. Say NO to boring sex and try out a few of the exciting ways we’ve put together to spice up your sex life and help take things to the next level.
Masturbating
It’s crazy to think this would be on the list and some people actually exist that don’t masturbate espeicslly post covid but when you living in certain conservative regions as an African its easy to see why this is still seen as ‘dirty’ or frowned upon.
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We’re here to tell you masturbation is a normal and healthy sexual activity and could sometimes be what you need to take your personal sex life to the next level. People masturbate for many reasons. These include pleasure, enjoyment, fun, and tension release. We highly recommend.
Sex Toys
When you get into mastubation, it’s only natural to take it to the next level by introducing a sex toy into the mix. From vibrating penis rings to G-spot stimulators, finger vibrators that can be used during penetrative sex, and a tongue-like attachment that simulates the real thing, there’s a sex toy for everyone.
Understanding your body and your partner’s will help you in selecting what sex toy works best for you but we guarantee they’re no downsides to this.
Research shows established couples report higher levels of pleasure from adding toys to their sexual repertoire more than any other type of erotic play.
Public sex
We’ve all had that thought of just getting down right in the moment when things are getting heating up but you’re outside and the closest room is mile away or you’re just a freak who loves the thrill of having sex outside.
The taboo around public sex and bearing the risk of exposure kind of makes you “partners in crime”. You’re both on a mission. Doing something, such as having outdoor sex, can be the spice you just need in your sex life.
A few tips:
- Don’t Break the Law: Public sex is felony in most places so plan it well and don’t expose yourself.
- Places to try – The beach, in a car, in the restroom of a toilet, a park, a rooftop, an outdoor pool/shower, an empty cinema.
If you’re successful, you’re sure to have ’ll have a hot and memorable experience. It can lead to other exciting adventures
Trying a threesome?
The R-rated definition of a threesome is when three people have sex with each other. It refers to group sex between three people of any combination of sex or gender. All three may be single, or the situation may involve a couple inviting another man or woman into their bedroom. Now that we have that cleared up let’s get into it.
Some tips before getting into a threesome:
- Talk about boundaries and expectations beforehand, and be sure to check in afterward to be sure it went well and there are no hurt feelings.
- Choose your third carefully, taking into account safety, whether you’ll run into that person again, how attracted everyone is to each other, etc.
- Treat all partners, but especially the newcomer, with respect. If you’re a couple, you don’t want to risk making a good friend feel like a third wheel. If you’re a guy hoping to have a threesome with two women, don’t assume they’re bisexual — or keep insisting that they kiss if they aren’t.
- If you’re new to this, try doing it in a neutral location, like a hotel room.
- Communicate constantly with both people.
- Don’t assume it’s going to be like what you see in porn. Adding another person to the mix can get messy, goofy, and ridiculous. Embrace it all and don’t expect a perfect experience
Threesomes aren’t for everyone and it’s not a necessity to spice things up but if you and your partner are into it, it’s definitely sure to take things up a notch.
Drugs
We’re not here to promote the use of drugs we’re just saying certain drugs like Weed or LSD can be the link between a good oragsm and a great orgasm.
Weed helps enhance because of two chemicals in marijuana, THC and CBD. When you fire up your endocannabinoid system (ECS), which boosts feelings of ease and joy, and heighten, or even blur, the five senses, creating a psychedelic sexual experience. In addition, an online survey of more than 200 women and men who use cannabis found that nearly 60 percent said cannabis increased their desire for sex; almost 74 percent reported increased sexual satisfaction.
Having sex on LSDs has been said to b one of the best feelings that you can have and is credited as the number one drug for sex. Every sensation is heightened, and the emotional connection is felt on a deeper level. It’s smart to caution with any drug taken, however, because your inhibitions are limited when tripping and there is a chance for a high to go wrong very quickly.
